How People Give up Drugs
Taking up drugs
is easy. Giving up is the hard
part. While you are on drugs and
having a good time, you don’t think about quitting. That only happens when it all starts turning bad. As a result, giving up drugs is usually
a hit and miss affair with a lot of unnecessary suffering. The only certainty in the drug world is
that every drug user will have to give up one day. Recreational drug use is not permanent and all drug users
know this. But because we don’t
understand, we have no idea how to give them up. The different methods of giving up are as follows:
o
Using
personal willpower to quit
o
Using
the love and support of others
o
Dramatic
lifestyle change
o
Voluntary
retirement
o
Using
drugs to fight drugs
The idea of
using licit drugs to treat illicit drugs has been around for a long time, but
from the perspective of Complimentary Health Therapies, taking one type of
addictive mood altering drug to counter the effect of another type of addictive
mood altering drug is not a viable long-term solution. It’s not even particularly sensible.
The Unasked Question
Recreational
drugs are a huge business and for a good reason. Drugs can make you feel so good it is almost
incomprehensible, and everything after that seems dull and lifeless. The rest of the truth is that we don’t
need drugs to feel that good. By
far and away the biggest mistake that is made upon giving up is not replacing
the drugs with any other way to feel good. If you have been using drugs daily, letting go of drugs can
mean letting go of the most important thing in your life. Drugs structure your life and make it
predictable. Stages of drug use
are follows:
o
Discovery
phase, the best place to make the break
o
Medicinal
phase, the transition from taking drugs to feel good to taking drugs so that
you don’t feel bad is so gradual that most people don’t realise that it has
happened, until it has.
What to Expect
Telling someone
to stop drugs does not work.
Offering them another way to get what drugs provide is a better idea. When the day of giving up arrives it is
usually because of wanting to give up the bad feelings, not because of wanting
to give up the good feelings.
For drug users
there is the additional complication that post-drug pain is invisible,
relatively uncharted and widely misunderstood, throw into the mix that non-drug
users have no idea what ex-addicts are going through and you have a recipe for
isolation, despair, pain and suffering.
However pain
encourages us to change so it is an opportunity for personal growth, and our
physical body is the means by which this is achieved. The better prepared you are for life after drugs, the more
chance you have of staying off drugs permanently.
When you are on
drugs you accept and understand the lows.
This strategy needs to be applied to the lows after quitting drugs,
because even if you rest, eat well, take supplements have regular therapeutic
treatment and do all the right things, hard days will still happen. When you give up drugs you will
naturally face grief, sadness and loss.
On the positive side the post-drug high starts at the baseline of
depression then inclines, falls, then inclines again. Each peak is higher than the subsequent fall and if you draw
a line connecting the peaks and lows you have an average that constantly
ascends. The truly great news is
that this trend can keep going.
Working with Cravings
Hard drugs are
such a powerful source of fuel that you burn so brightly that you feel as
though all of your desires are met.
At the same time hard drugs empty your fuel tanks. Cravings are massive physiological and
emotional urges that are focused purely on what you are missing. Whilst they can be hard to fight
against, they can also be a potent force to harness. There is no motivation more powerful than craving. It makes you creative and makes you
find a way to get drugs. Addicts
always achieve their goals and it is cravings that drive them to do this. Hunger draws your attention to
something important that is missing.
Cravings carry the message that your body, mind and indeed soul needs
nourishment.
The following video presentation is entitled, "From drugs to spirituality" and is from Jost Sauer, pioneer in the field of REAL drug repair and recovery.
Enjoy a:)
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